UPDATE: Although, Ashanti told Hot 97 radio in December 2013 that she’s been scarred by her relationship with Nelly, there have been Nelly/Ashanti sightings everywhere! Bossip.com, has just reported that Ashanti and Nelly were spotted together at WIP in SoHo on Sunday, February 2nd to catch DJ Whoo Kid’s set. Last week, mediatakeout.com posted pictures showing Ashanti and Nelly in close proximity at Meek Mills’ Grammy party. So close, that the picture I included in this post shows Nelly’s arm wrapped around her waist. However, the morning of January 29th, Ashanti tried to use twitter to slow down rumors that she and ex-boyfriend Nelly are back together. She wrote:
“Come on y'all it was a party... Lol #braveheart2014 #iGotIt!!!”
Now that they're teasing us about their relationship, I looked for aspects within their astrological compatibility chart that make it hard for them to stay apart. Instead, I found MANY aspects that make it hard for them to stay together. Don’t get me wrong, there is a magnetic attraction between the two of them and they share common interests and much affection. However, there is strong discord running rampant throughout their chart. They would have to do A GREAT DEAL of work to resolve the issues detailed in their compatibility chart (as discussed below). I'm a firm believer that relationship drama becomes easier to deal with as couples mature and grow stronger together. Wishing them the best! Let’s take a look at the potential toxicity!!!
Nelly – November 2, 1974 – SCORPIO
Ashanti – October 13, 1980 - LIBRA
Ashanti’s Sun squares Nelly’s Saturn. Here Nelly's ideas of security, stability, duty, and responsibility will conflict with the optimism, ambition and confidence in Ashanti. Nelly restricts, delays or frustrates Ashanti. Nelly will worry, burden, limit, discipline, hinder, discourage or depress Ashanti, if not in words or action, then through the experiences of their association. Nelly pressures Ashanti. This aspect often produces setbacks or losses in business, as well as in marriage. Nelly can limit or will interfere with Ashanti in some way, bringing Ashanti numerous debts or burdens or problems to be solved. Nelly, will sometimes disappoint Ashanti or cause Ashanti to become discouraged. Nelly, may tear down Ashanti's hope and confidence. This may not be intentional, but due to experiences or to his own disposition. Ashanti's ambitions are delayed in realization because of problems or responsibilities which Nelly brings into the relationship. In marriage, Nelly brings or incurs a limitation or obligation which works some hardship on Ashanti. In summary, this aspect indicates that one of them makes the other feel insecure, while the other feels trapped by the relationship.
Goodness gracious!!! No wonder Ashanti’s been out of the game for so long. I guess that’s why she was able to work on her album during their separation. Or were they separated??
Disclaimer: I do not have the birth times of Nelly and Ashanti, and having birth times enhances the accuracy of the assessment. The text in italics is pure speculation and only my opinion. Thanks for reading. Blessings!
My latest guilty pleasure involves watching the sexual tension unfold between Erica Mena and Rich Dollaz on Season 4 of ‘Love & Hip Hop: New York. I’m a Scorpio that loves me some Scorpios, so you know I check for Erica. I had to do the compatibility chart between her and Rich to see if this explosive on-again, off-again situation between the two of them is real.
Rich Dollaz – August 4, 1971 - Leo
Erica Mena – November 8, 1987 - Scorpio
Surprisingly, their chart is very similar to their antics displayed on television. Maybe reality tv, really is reality. I’ll only give you a taste of their chart. It’s too good to share it all in one post. You may wanna get some popcorn or steep some tea, THIS IS JUICY!! Let’s go!
Erica’s Venus opposites Rich’s Saturn. Erica is likely to have many unhappy experiences through this aspect. Rich will prove to be demanding, restricting, selfish, condemning, resentful, critical, disapproving, jealous and may even dislike her (well dang!!). Erica may find it difficult to give affection to Rich, or if she does, it would be mere show inspired by fear or anxiety. Rich will bring sorrow, worry and responsibilities to Erica and she will probably try to escape in some way. Erica will usually be unhappy and feel dominated or frustrated. Many economic problems also are likely to be encountered. Rich tends to impose too much responsibility on Erica and often blames Erica for troubles encountered together. Some of Rich's qualities or habits may disgust Erica if she is anal about details.
Erica’s Moon squares Rich’s Pluto. There could arise problems of sexual origin (shout-out to Cyn!).
Erica’s Venus conjuncts Rich’s Neptune. This aspect encourages mutual interests such as music, drama, dancing, poetry or art. There will be much sympathy between them, in many cases, this aspect aids understanding and can create a deep affection and devotion. Rich will be sympathetic and sacrificing toward Erica, though also elusive and sometimes deceptive. Rich tends to entice or bewitch Erica. If either of them is inclined to self-indulgences, then this aspect will encourage such weaknesses in both of them (please, just say, no!). This aspect introduces pity which is not always a fortunate beginning for true devotion. All of this can make or break a marriage. It all depends upon how mature and responsible they are (uh oh!).
Erica’s Moon trines Rich’s Mars. Rich stimulates the imagination, ideas and self-confidence of Erica. In marriage the aspect of the husband's Mars to the wife's Moon encourages reproduction.
Will Erica have Rich’s baby?????
Disclaimer: I do not have the birth times of Rich and Erica, and having birth times enhances the accuracy of the assessment. The text in italics is pure speculation and only my opinion. Thanks for reading. Blessings!
Oprah Winfrey, the one and only Aquarian TV mogul celebrates her 60th birthday today. The TV mogul reflected on her life's biggest accomplishments in the January 2014 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine.
"Sixty. I'm turning 60 this month! I'm so glad I've lived long enough to say those words and celebrate their meaning," she wrote. "I'm turning 60. I'm alive. Healthy. Strong."
"I'm turning 60, and—please don't take offense—I no longer have to be concerned about what anyone thinks of me! (You know, the old Am I doing it right? Am I saying it right? Am I being what or who I'm 'supposed' to be?) I'm turning 60, and I've earned the right to be just as I am," she said. "I'm more secure in being myself than I've ever been."
Hallelujah, Oprah. Happy Birthday! You look fabulous!
William Michael Griffin Jr., better known as Rakim, was born on January 28, 1968. One half of the hip hop duo Eric B & Rakim, he is one of the greatest rappers ever to do it…a LIVING LEGEND! Rakim is 46 years old today, and in honor of his Aquarian greatness, I present you with the lyrics to “Paid In Full” (as if you don’t already know them). ENJOY!!!
Thinkin' of a master plan
'Cuz ain't nuthin' but sweat inside my hand
So I dig into my pocket, all my money is spent
So I dig deeper but still comin' up with lint
So I start my mission, leave my residence
Thinkin' how could I get some dead presidents
I need money, I used to be a stick-up kid
So I think of all the devious things I did
I used to roll up, this is a hold up, ain't nuthin' funny
Stop smiling, be still, don't nuthin' move but the money
But now I learned to earn 'cuz I'm righteous
I feel great, so maybe I might just
Search for a nine to five, if I strive
Then maybe I'll stay alive
So I walk up the street whistlin' this
Feelin' out of place 'cuz, man, do I miss
A pen and a paper, a stereo, a tape of
Me and Eric B, and a nice big plate of
Fish, which is my favorite dish
But without no money it's still a wish
'Cuz I don't like to dream about gettin' paid
So I dig into the books of the rhymes that I made
So now to test to see if I got pull
Hit the studio, 'cuz I'm paid in full
My name is Jamillion Starzz and I’m a celeb gossip junkie! I’m also a Scorpio obsessed with astrology. The marriage of these two obsessions has resulted in the birth of this blog. Welcome! Like my Facebook page so you can stay up to date on ALL the drama!