People have become highly frustrated with the excessive showcasing of extramarital affairs on television and celebrity gossip blogs. And I share in their frustration! Although cheating is far from a new concept, it seems the constant glorification of the subject is (i.e. “ho’s be winning”). "Love" is becoming more and more scarce in the media these days, so it’s no surprise that the on-break baby-momma phenomenon reared its ugly head in the celeb world a few times in 2013. One couple caught in this whirlwind was Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union.
Dwyane Wade, the 31-year-old Miami Heat player, admitted he had a son with Aja Metoyer, 30, a woman he claimed to have known "for many years.” Despite this woman having Dwyane’s child on Nov. 10, 2013, Gabrielle Union, the 41-year-old actress, said yes to Dwyane’s marriage proposal on Dec. 21, 2013. The public has spewed out much judgment towards this couple because of this “situation” and many were skeptical if there would ever be a wedding! WELLLL...
IT'S OFFICIAL!!! Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union are MARRIED! Who ever thought they wouldn't make it to the altar should be ashamed of yourself! According to People.com:
Actress Gabrielle Union, 41, star of the hit BET drama about a woman unlucky in love, found her own happy ending Saturday, marrying long-time boyfriend Miami Heat shooting guard Dwyane Wade, 32.
Peep the photo gallery for pics (via Bossip.com) of the wedding guests which included Gabrielle's wedding dress designer, Kevin Hart, Carmelo and LaLa Anthony, Chris Bosh, Ludacris, and Terrence J. Also, the latest pics of their beautifully blended family. CONGRATS!!!!
This above pic is from the night before the wedding! Read further for revealing details in their compatibility chart! Also, catch a recap of their engagement party and all of the drama they had to endure to get to this point!
March 17, 2014: E! had the following details on their engagement party:
The soon-to-be husband and wife hosted an engagement bash at Pearl at Nikki Beach in Miami Saturday night, with an after-hours party with family and friends.
Before the engagement party, Gabrielle hosted the Reid & Fiorentino Call of the Game dinner at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino in Hollywood, Fla. Gabrielle is an extremely brave advocate for shedding light on a horrendous epidemic. Giving Gabrielle the UTMOST respect, I must highlight her latest post that summarizes the event's cause.
March 5, 2014. Ladies and gentlemen, Dwyane FINALLY issued a public apology to his fiance...
As reported at Necolebitchie.com, Gabrielle Union appeared on the Arsenio Hall show on February 10th. According to Gabrielle, her wedding with Dwyane Wade will be small because it's the second time around for the both of them. She also mentioned that a prenup is a must because she's never seen Dwyane Wade balance a check book...SHADE!!!
Read further to see what I had to say about their compatibility and my thoughts on why Dwyane may have impregnated another woman during the course of his relationship with Gabrielle.
If you only look at their sun signs, Capricorn and Scorpio, their relationship is highly compatible. Unfortunately, no matter how harmonious a relationship is, drama is inevitable. By taking a look at various aspects of their birth charts, we can get a general overview of the qualities of their relationship that MAY have caused this “on-break” baby-momma situation.
Dwyane Wade – January 17, 1982 - CAPRICORN
Gabrielle Union - October 29, 1972 – SCORPIO
Gabrielle’s Sun conjuncts Dwyane’s Moon. This aspect results in a powerful attraction. Their personalities complement each other, but aren’t identical. They each possess something of the other's nature. Dwyane is intuitive and sensitive in reaction to Gabrielle. Gabrielle is protective toward Dwyane. HOWEVER, when the woman's Sun conjuncts the man's Moon, she might try to lead or dominate him, becoming “too bossy.”
If this is true, I hope Gabrielle is aware of this tendency and controls it well. I’m not sure this aspect has anything to do with the drama, but I think we’re getting close. Let’s move on.
Gabrielle’s Venus squares Dwyane’s Neptune. This means that there may be attraction between the two of them or perhaps a one-sided attraction. Much sympathy and compassion are aroused, but there is also likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion on the part of one or both of them. This aspect means that Gabrielle should make Dwyane prove himself before she commits herself to him.
Now we’re getting to the nitty-gritty! We all saw what Dwyane's capable of when given too much freedom. Moving on…
Dwyane’ s Sun squares Gabrielle’s Uranus. This is an unstable aspect that has a tendency to set people free or drives couples apart. Because of this aspect, their relationship most likely started quickly, full of excitement and attraction. However, over time, Gabrielle is likely to feel “trapped” by Dwyane, and Dwyane is likely to find Gabrielle unpredictable and unstable. They may separate at key moments (long-distance and other non-traditional relationships), and may not be able to truly rely on one another in the long-term. Celebrities have even been known to become controversial and hit the front page of tabloids with Sun-Uranus transits.
So in 2013, before the news hit about the baby, Gabrielle appeared on a late night talk show. I heard her say that she and Dwyane separated, and she allowed Dwyane to go and sow his wild oats that year. As we now know, they eventually reunited, became engaged, and news of a new baby surfaced days later.
In the February 2014 issue of Glamour Magazine, Gabrielle blames her schedule for the reason they separated.
“(The separation in 2013) was because of distance and scheduling,” she said. “I finished filming the show, then I flew to Vegas right away to start shooting Think Like a Man Too. I couldn’t take time off, and I missed some quality togetherness we desperately needed.”
So, it’s really not clear to me if Gabrielle was away for filming, or they were on-break so he could sow, or both. Who knows…they do! But, that’s irrelevant. All scenarios scream the unstable Sun-Uranus aspect!
Gabrielle’s Mars conjuncts Dwyane’s Saturn. Dwyane, in some ways, restricts or limits Gabrielle's activities and Gabrielle may have to set aside many personal aims or projects, temporarily, if not permanently, or as long as their relationship lasts.
In the Glamour interview, Gabrielle goes on to say…
"Over the summer, I reassessed priorities," she said. "I'd always wanted an awesome career with back-to-back projects, but I realized I wasn't willing to sacrifice my relationship for it."
If this ain’t this Mars-Saturn aspect, I don’t know what is!
Dwyane’s Moon sextiles Gabrielle’s Jupiter. This aspect means that if their relationship is not an especially happy one, Gabrielle will never hold grudges toward Dwyane. In marriage, this aspect stimulates fertility. If Gabrielle is religious or spiritually inclined, she can have a very inspiring and ennobling effect on Dwyane, bringing out the best facets of his personality.
So in the end, Gabrielle forgives Dwyane (but doesn't forget), she has his baby or babies, she inspires Dwyane to be better, and they live happily ever after. THE END!
Disclaimer: I do not have the birth times of Dwyane or Gabrielle, and having birth times enhances the accuracy of the assessment. The text in italics is pure speculation and only my opinion. Thanks for reading. Blessings!
My name is Jamillion Starzz and I’m a celeb gossip junkie! I’m also a Scorpio obsessed with astrology. The marriage of these two obsessions has resulted in the birth of this blog. Welcome! Like my Facebook page so you can stay up to date on ALL the drama!