UPDATE (6/5/14): In the latest issue of Rolling Out, Keyshia Cole's estranged husband - Daniel "Boobie" Gibson - finally reveals what led to the problems in his marriage. Read further for a clip of the interview, a recap of the drama he and Keyshia experienced this past year, and the portions of their compatibility chart that explain why they went through this mess in the first place!! It gets pretty ugly!
Here is a portion of the interview, as reported at necolebitchie.com
On why his marriage failed
I think that life happened. In certain situations, you are a match made in heaven. But at the same time, nothing is perfect — and nobody is perfect. Then in some situations, you aren’t going to be as perfect as some people expect you to be. What happened with me and her was that our relationship was out there for everyone to see. So whenever we were going through our problems, it became public and everyone saw the ups and downs. With us, I think it was just a matter of us growing apart over time. I can’t say that there was one thing that broke us up, but what I can say as a man; when you are in a relationship, and you say those vows, I take full responsibility for everything that didn’t go right.
On if he thinks it’s his fault the marriage didn’t work
I take that responsibility — I do.
I’m giving you the real answer because I feel like you’re never supposed to allow your marriage to fall apart. Whether it’s the blogs saying I cheated, or if I don’t like your attitude, at the end of the day, when you’re married to somebody, and you say “I do,” it says for better or for worse, and regardless of what comes in your relationship, you’re supposed to work through it. For example, even if you wanted to say that I cheated, you’re still supposed to figure out a way to make that work. So I’m not backing down from anything that people have to say about me, and I’m not taking the easy way out. But I am taking full responsibility for that not being my wife.
On if he cheated
No? Well there are songs out by her that say something totally different.
Well, let me put it like this. I won’t say that I didn’t cheat, but I will say that I cheated my wife out of a friend in a lot of situations where I was supposed to hold her down and I didn’t. I cheated my wife out of a lot of different things. I feel like when we got together, I thought I was a man, and I thought I had it all figured out but I didn’t. I think I was like 23 when we met, and so a lot of mistakes that you shouldn’t make as a man in a relationship with your wife, I made. So you can go down the line — I probably made every mistake. The difference between me then and me now is that back then, I probably would have tried to sit here and make an excuse like, “oh it was because of her attitude, and it made me go out and cheat on her.” No, that’s a sucker move — that’s for a coward to say. So I‘m sitting here telling you that regardless of what she did, I married her. I loved her. And none of that other stuff should have happened. We’re supposed to still be together doing it right.
On the rumors that he cheated with a stripper
As far as the whole stripper thing goes, of course I went to the strip club and had a picture taken of me with a stripper. But what I’ve been trying to figure out when I hear people gossiping and talking is, since when do two pictures constitute a relationship? It only happens that way when the media tries to paint a picture that this is what happened to our relationship. And what I will say about my wife is that she’s really into the social media world. So when stories like this start floating around, and she feels the need to get involved with it, it makes it seem more true than it really is. But that didn’t really have anything to do with us being separated, because when you think about it, we were actually already separated before all of that came out.
And that’s why I say it’s way deeper than a superficial story that I cheated. It’s way deeper. What it really boils down to was, I just wasn’t a good friend to her, and I wasn’t a good person for her at the end of the day.
On the reality show aiding in the demise of the marriage
Me being the way that I am, and the way that I was raised, I personally felt like love should be private, so I really didn’t want to agree to us doing the show at the beginning. Because I really felt like, when you open up that door, you allow people to be able to hate, or form whatever assumptions they want to about you because you’re putting your life out there. But I felt like it should be private. And, you know, she sings and she sings from that hurt place. I respect what she does, and she has to do that, but as far as I go, I couldn’t care less what somebody has to say about me as a man. The people that know me are the people that matter. And those people know what I’m about and what I stand for. So feel free to call me a stripper-chasing coward who let his family down. But those that know me know what I’m really about and that is never going to change.
Read more at http://necolebitchie.com/2014/06/keyshia-coles-estranged-husband-daniel-boobie-gibson-speaks-out-on-their-failed-marriage-for-the-first-time-in-rolling-out/#4g73WVPJWttVrMM5.99
Continue reading to get all the tea!
UPDATE (3/19/14): When a woman's fed up...she vents on her new single, "Rick James."
And it's very clear who she's singing about! It looks like Keyshia's transferring the wrath she released on social media only a few months ago, into her latest album titled Cole World.
Thanks to necolebitchie.com, the lyrics are as follows:
I gave you all my love
Who’s the one who’s hurting now
But you can keep your double standards
It’s funny how the tables turned around
Why does it matter now?
Who can do you better?
Feet up on your couch
Yeah, bitch, I’m Rick James
Slap a b-tch like Rick James, I’m Rick James
Read further for Keyshia and her husband, Daniel "Boobie" Gibson's, compatibility issues that may have led to these revealing lyrics. And if you need a recap on their drama, you can find it here, too.
To hear the single visit: http://necolebitchie.com/2014/03/19/bitchie-or-not-keyshia-cole-releases-new-single-rick-james-featuring-juicy-j/#4ftu5QB7hfqRV6yl.99
As you may already know from their messy social media antics, singer, Keyshia Cole, and her husband, former Cleveland Cavalier's Guard, Daniel “Boobie” Gibson, are having “issues” in their marriage. Over the past few months, Boobie and Keyshia have been attacking each other on Instagram and Twitter while both have been photographed in compromising situations without the other. They know they need to stop because their astrological chart shows they have great chemistry and an enduring relationship. Here’s a recap of their drama and how it relates to their chart! Messy, messy, messy!
Keyshia and Boobie married in 2011. In 2013, there were many rumors floating around the internet about them, including a rumor that Boobie got a sidepiece pregnant and Keyshia tried to rekindle some thangs with Young Jeezy. Boobie tried to shut down rumors on Twitter writing:
(MTO refers to gossip blog MediaTakeOut.com)
On October 15, 2013, Keyshia turned 32, and Boobie gave her a 10-day vacation to the Bahamas.
A few days later, while taking part in the WBLS Circle of Sisters R&B Concert, Keyshia spoke with True Exclusives about the rumors and she said, "We’re good. We’re chillin’. We have a kid. We’re married. So it’s all love."
On November 7, 2013 at a Drake concert after party at club Reign in Atlanta, Keyshia was photographed with body parts erect and a mystery man. We later find out the man she was seen with is "Ruggs", a promoter for D'usse.
On November 16, 2013, Boobie was at a Houston strip club and blew $5,000 on stripper, H TOWN CIARA. This occurred while news broke that his wife was facing IRS issues. Boobie posted images on social media of himself posing with the dancer.
On November 17, 2013, Boobie revisited the strip club and sent what appeared to be a subliminal video message via Instagram singing along rapper Young Dro’s "FDB" (F--k Dat B**ch).
On February 4, 2014, Keyshia tweeted “You have to GO! Take yo ass back to HTown! U can have him boo. #Trust”
Along with this Instagram:
On February 5, 2014, as reported by MStars News, Houston Texas stripper, Jhonni Blaze defended her friend, H TOWN CIARA. Blaze tweeted,
"Look @KeyshiaCole if you really want to be honest real bitch shit your nikka only went there picked up 5k and dipped. And I'm done!"
"B**ches have a good nikka but be worried about other hoes but leave my b**ch out of it because she got a nikka she ain't tripping on yall."
“Want to rumble with a beast ... your music flops every time soooooo..... u should of cheated on your producer and got a new one hoe!”
On February 10, Keyshia’s appearance on the Bethanny Show aired and she looked fed up and emotionally THRU! On the show, she even implied that Boobie was a “pig!”
So there you have it! There was even more shade thrown during this time, however, what I've included is enough to give you the BIG picture. So, here are some key influences in their compatibility chart that may have caused this mess.
Boobie – February 27, 1986 - PISCES
Keyshia Cole - October 15, 1981 – LIBRA
Boobie’s Venus squares Keysha’s Neptune. There may be attraction between the two or perhaps a one-sided attraction. Much sympathy and compassion are aroused, but there is also likely to be a certain amount of confusion, deception, even evasion on the part of one or both of them. Boobie would be wise to make Keyshia prove all that she say s about herself before submitting to a close association. Keyshia can be elusive or deceitful an undependable in some way, or simply uncooperative. One or both may be insincere toward the other. Sometimes associations with this aspect just drift apart rather than break up through any decisive action or for any special cause.
Keyshia’s Mars opposites Boobie’s Jupiter. This aspect may encourage foolhardy risks and is a detriment from an economic standpoint in marriage or in business relationships. They must respect each other's judgment and strive for careful planning and administration of their affairs or the association will prove unfortunate for economic security. This aspect tends to bring out any traits of extravagance, wastefulness or foolhardiness in the nature of either or both parties.
Both of them are guilty of making questionable economic choices. According to PerezHilton.com, after her headlining tour in 2009 with TLC, Lil Kim and The-Dream, Keyshia failed to pay her taxes that year. A lien was filed in November claiming Keyshia owes $162,158.93 to the federal government. Boobie posted the pic below the same night he posted his "FDB" video. Pretty self explanatory on how this applies to Boobie's financial shenanigans.
Keysha’s Venus conjuncts Boobie’s Saturn. The SATURN influence makes marriage binding. This aspect increases loyalty and mutual dependence in love and marriage. It is an aspect which supports endurability.
This was evident on February 13, 2014, when Keyshia posted…
What do you think? Will they stay together? Can they work through this???
Disclaimer: I do not have the birth times of Keyshia and Boobie, and having birth times enhances the accuracy of the assessment. The majority of the text in italics is pure speculation and only my opinion. Thanks for reading. Blessings!
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